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8 Things I Really Don’t Give a Crap About (and neither should you)

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I’m a pretty caring and loving kinda girl. Really I am. I care about people, a lot. I care about the environment and poverty and my hair. Yes, I care a lot about my hair. I care about a lot of things.

And my health. I try to stay pretty healthy. So you see there is lots I actually do care about. And then, there is the list of things that I really do not give a poop about.

Why am I sharing this with you? Because maybe after you see my list, and if any of these things weren’t on your list before, maybe they might go on there in the future. Maybe when you see some of the things I don’t give a crap about you will see that they are, in fact, senseless things that you shouldn’t care about either.

Or maybe I’m sharing this with you because to me, it’s important, and I like sharing things with you. The important things. Ok I’ll stop babbling now, without further ado…….

8 things I don't care about and neither should you

Things I don’t give a crap about.

What you think about me

Nope, don’t give a hoot about that. I used to. It used to drive me nuts if I thought for one second someone didn’t like me. How could that be? How could you not like me? I get it now. I’m not everyone’s cup of tea.  I’m a bit of an in your face gushing sweetness and F bombs kinda girl and then I don’t know when to shut up sometimes so ya, I get how not everyone will like me. That’s cool. I don’t really care anymore. Like not at all.

The latest episode of Criminal Minds…

or whatever series you are watching on TV. As a matter of fact, I don’t really care about TV, ever. I haven’t owned a TV in a very long time. If there is anything I really want to watch (like UFC and Vikings) I find ways to watch them. Don’t talk to me about TV shows. I don’t give a poop about any of them.

The price of things

Gas prices are up or down, hydro is expensive, cigarettes cost more, taxes are increasing…oh good Lord, alright I get it.  Prices are going up. Enough about it already. Can you do anything about it? Probably not. I’m so tired of hearing about it. Do you have money to pay for gas? Yes wait you have a car, right? And you can pay for hydro, and everything else, right? I’m currently in a third world country where they don’t even have money for food. Shut up about your gas prices. I don’t care.

About all your aches and pains

Ok so that may sound really insensitive and I’m really sorry, but if you are one of those people who are always complaining about your latest pain, ya I don’t give a hoot about it any more and stop talking about it. It’s annoying and boring. Shut up about your knee and your elbow and your big toe. Good grief. Honestly, no one wants to hear about it any more. (I’ll speak for the masses here, you’re welcome) People honestly and truly don’t want to hear other people’s complaints. They don’t. There, I said it.

If I die tomorrow

I don’t care when I die, really, because every day I live my life to the absolute fullest. I don’t care if I die tomorrow and anyway, apparently the afterlife is soooooo super cool. Now don’t get me wrong, I don’t really wanna die tomorrow because I’m kinda really lovin’ life in Guatemala but if by some chance, well….it’s ok. I’m cool with it. (not like I have much choice any way)

Don’t talk to me about the presidential election

Because I REALLY don’t care about that, ever, at all. Or any election for that matter. If Donald Trump can run for US president then there is a bigger problem and I don’t give a hoot about that either. I’m not American, I’m kinda Canadian, I’m mostly Earthian (ha I just made that up but it’s kinda cool) The world will go about the way it wants to with whatever the leaders have up their sleeves and there isn’t a single solitary thing any of us can do about it, ever. (I may get slammed for this one)

How hard done by you’ve been

Oh trust me, I so get this one. I listened to myself cry the blues about my terrible life for years. Everybody did me wrong. My boyfriends, my parents, my family, you name it, everybody did me wrong. It was a nightmare. And I went on and on about it for years. My poor friends!!!! Why didn’t they tell me to shut up already?? Man, how dreadful it must have been for them to listen to me. To all my friends now, I’m sorry. If you’re one of those people who goes on and on and on….just stop. Please.

What’s everybody else doing?

I don’t give a crap what they are doing. Is Jane having an affair behind Tom’s back? Did you know that Sally drinks too much and she’s on antidepressants? You know what? I don’t care. It’s none of my business and I could not care less about anyone else’s private life. You wanna know what I care about? Spreading love, smiles and helping people as much as I can.

As you can see, some of the things on my list are negative. There’s a bit of a pattern there. I don’t care about negative things. I was surrounded by negative things all my life. I don’t give a crap about negative things any more. I try to fill my life with only positive things now.

Love, laughter, kindness and sunshine.

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18 Responses

    1. Hey Caitlin thanx for popping by! Glad you liked the list. :) I love the fact that I can always be myself here and wonderful peeps like you appreciate that :) Thanx and Goddess on!!

  1. Love this list…what I love even more, is WE think alike!! Our lists are mirror images ♡♡♡

    1. Hey Sandy thanx for dropping your thoughts!! So glad there are others who kinda think like me, mind you that’s also kinda :D

  2. Hilarious – you have a very colorful way of putting things Iva :) I too don’t care about these items you mentioned and feel like caring about these things is what cripples us in life. I’m not even sure what is my favorite – every single one of these things resonate with me. TV is the greatest time waster in our lives – not missed it for one day in the last 5 years. Now, when I ever do see tv, I’m amazed and in awe and almost interested in the program b/c it’s such a novelty:)

    1. Hey Vishnu always nice to see you and so glad you enjoyed my rant :)..ya TV and me, meh, I couldn’t care less. Loving your newsletters by the way!! <3

  3. Iva, I can soooo relate to your list! It’s like reading my own! Glad that I’m not the only one and seriously, I don’t give a rat’s ass about it!

    1. Hey thanx so much for dropping by with your thoughts. Glad you liked the article. The politics one really is my worst. I am so out of the loop when it comes to politics and quite frankly….well…..:o

  4. HI, Iva

    Yet, Glad that you are out of bondage of those negative things. Freedom is the word to describe that feeling, right?

    Haven’t watched TV for many years, the news report all the bad things around people. They repeat the same news throughout the day, We really don’t need that to go to our ears.

    Yes, people treated us wrong. So what, they were past event, we can’t reverse them or do anything about them. The only thing we can do is to forgive. I feel so sorry for the people who still hold angry or um-forgiveness in their mind.

    Thanks for the insight.

    Stella Chiu

    1. Hey Stella thanx for dropping by! Always a pleasure to see you :) and you’re right, freedom is the word!

    1. :) thanx for your comment Erika and glad you enjoyed the blog. Love you too!! xoxox

  5. Well, that’s just cool for you. It sounds rather more like a huge venting list. Whooooo, my opinion about Canadians just took a blow. And you don’t care about when you’re going to die? I wouldn’t either if I was just some super human not caring a f*~£ about the people in my life I love and my purpose on this earth, and not just about little things like my hair. Very negative list indeed, and I’m referring to your attitude. We’re here on this mother&@”(#>~ earth to deal with these things in a positive way. I searched in vain for the positive in this blog article. It seems like you’re just waiting for your tribe to pick you up like that spaced out dude Patti Smith met during her early days in New York. Bon f*^€&#£$ Voyage.

    1. Yes it’s cool for me, it’s my blog :) Thanx for your comment. Much love from sunny Guatemala where, guess what, they don’t give a fuck about stupid shit down here either. Ah, right at home :)

  6. well said Iva…I indeed like your attitude…no pretending , straight forward and what matters to you and how you feel is absolutely nothing wrong with…keep on being you…luv you..

  7. I love this list. The first one I worked in a lot on because I have a very happy enthusiastic attitude and when I enjoy something you will know it. A lot of people disappear without a word and for awhile I thought something was wrong with me but you know what F them, perhaps they need to look at evolving their attitude. It ain’t me and I don’t care what anyone else thinks. This world needs more positive and fun in it.

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Iva Ursano is a retired hairstylist turned badass freelancer, who left behind 52 years of her life in Northern Ontario, Canada for a life of freedom, love and beauty in sunny Guatemala. She has two main purposes in life: feed hungry bellies and help inspire people to live a life of joy and love.