4 Warning Signs Your Home Is the Cause of Your Anger and Financial Stress.

The Feng Shui geek in me comes out for this blog. I love Feng Shui and everything about it. When I started dabbling in it I knew I wanted to take a course to become a Practitioner. So I did. I discovered so many things that finally just made sense to me. The main thing I discovered is that our home is the main cause of our anger and financial stress.

Lemme explain. First things first. You need to understand what Feng Shui really is.

Feng who what?

Feng Shui is a practice that involves balancing out the energy flow in your home. That’s the definition in a nutshell. Energy is everywhere and everything is energy. So if you think about that statement for one second you will understand that if there is negative energy in your home, well guess what. It affects your life. Feng Shui is about clearing out old energy, allowing new fresh energy to enter your space and your life, and in turn, balance out your life.

Sounds simple enough right? It is really that simple. Now that you understand a wee bit about Feng Shui and energy, you will easily see how your whole life is affected by it. Even your emotions.

Let me share with you now the 4 signs that the energy in your home is causing you anger and financial distress. This will blow your mind.

Here is how your home is causing you financial stress and anger.

Clutter is toxic

Just saying “clutter” gives me anxiety and if I walk into a house that has clutter I can barely breathe. No shit. Clutter is so toxic and dirty you can’t even imagine. So imagine you have clutter at your doorway. Every time you walk in the door you’re tripping over something or yelling at someone to move their shit. Every single day you go through this. Every single day you walk in your home and get upset. Are you following me here? You’re angry before you’ve even had a chance to take your shoes off.

Clutter is the Devil of the Feng Shui world. Where there is clutter, there is anger, stress, anxiety and frustration. Clear the clutter, get rid of that anger.

The air smells dirty.

Remembering that energy is everything and everywhere, keep in mind that when you have a fight with your spouse or child or someone on the phone or whatever, that negative energy is still hovering around in your house. Yup, I kid you not. It’s lingering there poisoning you. If the air in a room feels heavy or dark, that could be the reason why.

Clear that space right after an argument. Here’s how you can do that easily.

Old and ugly.

Your home is your castle. It’s your own personal space. The place you should be able to go to relax and feel “at home” and peaceful. It should feel warm to you and be beautiful to you. Beautiful meaning you should love everything you own. Oh, er…well maybe except that ugly fucking picture Aunt Betty gave you but you keep it up out of guilt. Admit it, it’s ugly, fading, dusty and an eyesore.

Why do you want to keep ugly things in your home? Does it make you feel happy and prosperous and peaceful? Hell no it doesn’t. Think of beautiful objects in your home as symbols of wealth. If you have something that is not even remotely close to being that symbol, guess what, your wealth reflects your things. Get rid of ’em. Now.

Can someone fix that please?

Talking about shitty and ugly objects what about your house? Is it all pretty and everything works good and the paint is nice and fresh and the doors open and close like they should? No windows or broken and there’s no garbage piled up anywhere, right?

Did you answer yes to all of that? Don’t feel bad if you didn’t. Remember your home is your castle. If your home is not that and is more like the neighbourhood joke, guess what? Castle symbolizes wealth, shack symbolizes poverty. Capiche?

Fix your shit.

Does any of this make sense to you? Sure hope so! Start making some little changes a week and watch how your life improves.

Sorry Aunt Betty, the Feng Shui girl told me to throw it out!!

Peace and Love




How to Use Gemstones With Feng Shui.

The Feng Shui geek in me comes out for this blog. I love Feng Shui and gemstones to the moon and back. I live eat sleep and breathe gemstones and Feng Shui. I kid you not. These two things, as well as my faith in God and the support of the Angels is what keeps me in flow of abundance and happiness. True story.

I have almost 100 stones in my collection now, mostly tumbled little stones but I also have a couple of nice geodes that were given to me as gifts and a few pieces of jewelry made from stones. Gemstones have great healing properties, physically and emotionally. My all time favourite stone is probably the Rose Quartz crystal. The stone of love, and I have oodles and oodles of them. I think the Sunstone comes in as a close second.

Sorry I got a little carried away there. I love all my stones but the point of this article isn’t to talk about my stones and which ones I love the most.

Using Gemstones with Feng Shui

Gemstones are used in Feng Shui to cure or enhance any of your life areas. I’m going to list my top 10 stones and how you can use them.

Clear crystal quartz

clears negative energy and is great to use as a room cleanser. To protect a room place one quartz in every corner. This is also a power stone and it is used to energize other stones and amplify their healing properties.

Rose quartz

-the stone of love. Use it to bring love to you or feel more love for yourself. You can also use it if you are feeling unloved and low, to pick up your spirits a little and help you feel more loving. Place a couple or a whole bunch in your Love and Relationship Area

Tiger eye

-the power stone for confidence, protection, grounding. Also for prosperity. Use it if you need a boost in confidence when dealing with a sticky situation. Career, Fame or Centre area.


-this is my relaxing, meditating, spiritual stone. It is used for calming and to bring peace and balance to you. Helpful People and Travel or Knowledge and Wisdom Area


-I love this stone for the simple fact that it is rare to find. This is called the merchant’s stone (as is the Garnet and Citrine) and you should place this stone in the area where you bring in money. Careful with this stone, it’s toxic. Wealth and Prosperity Area


-another money stone, also a stone of love and emotional healing. Wealth and Prosperity or Centre


-this stone never needs cleansing, also known as a money stone or the merchant’s stone. Keep some in your cash register, wallet or purse.Wealth and Prosperity or Career


-is a happy stone, lifts spirits and brings joy and optimism to you. Helpful People and Travel or Love and Relationship area


-the deep green color is so beautiful! This stone is great to use for protection against negativity Centre or Family and Health area.

Black Obsidian

-is a super powerful stone to protect you from negativity. It is also a great grounding stone. Centre, Career area or front door

This is just a small list of ideas and some of the more commonly used stones in Feng Shui. Make sure you cleanse your stones after you bring them home from the store or if someone has touched them (citrine doesn’t need cleansing). Your stones are precious to you and should only carry your energy. I like to place mine on a windowsill during a full moon. The moon recharges them.

When you are using your stones make sure you program them, with affirmations, to do what you want them to do. For example, if you are feeling low or gloomy, grab your sunstone, hold it tightly and ask it to lift your spirits and bring you joy. Then carry it with you for the day.

Hope you enjoyed this little piece today. If you ever have any questions, please feel free to shoot me off an email. I’m always happy to hear from you guys!

Happy Feng Shui’ing