The Secret Behind the Law of Attraction-What You Really Need to Know

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We have this vision in our head. We use all the tools of manifestation that we’ve been taught and know so well. We see something in our minds, we feel it, we believe it, we want it so bad it hurts. We are absolutely positively without a doubt sure that we will get what we want. Period. We believe in the law of attraction. We practice it and swear by it. But….does the law of attraction really work? Can it really bring the joy, success and wealth we deserve? First you need to know the secret behind it.

You know we pay attention to all the law of attraction gurus and do what they tell us to do but…..what the hell?

My attempt at the law of attraction

I had 2 boxes of books I was determined to sell. I wrote this book as an eBook back in April 2014 but printed up 500 copies for those that prefer a physical copy. You could say I’m a bit of an optimist.

So I had a book signing event. Got rid of about 50. Had a sprinkling of people here and there buying a book. Dropped some off at some local stores. Sold one or two that way.

Months later, I’m starting to freak out. I have a little over 300 books sitting in a closet now that I desperately want and need to get rid of. These books cost me a ton of money and I ain’t seeing a return on my investment.

Fast forward a couple of months. Big event  in Sudbury. Women’s show. I book a table. I’m gonna get all these darned books sold once and for all. And besides, the extra cash is going to come in handy this close to Christmas. Right? Surely these women will love to buy this book and they will all be sold. Boom!!

I prayed on it. visualized it. meditated on it. affirmed it. believed it. felt it. saw it. It was going to happen. No doubt in my mind. Not one single solitary doubt.

And then the unthinkable. Yup. After 3 days, I came home with a box of books, minus about 10.

How could that be? I did everything the Law of Attraction gurus teach us. I had it down to a fine art. What went wrong?

But I did all that! Why didn’t my visualization work??

The first night I sold one book. I went home shaking my head. I don’t get it. Did I miss something? An important step maybe? Is my book dumb or uninteresting? Every single form of self-doubt suddenly floods my brain. Maybe the LOA has flaws. They forgot to give us the secret, but mega important, step. I’m sure of it.

I tried again. But this time I pulled out my iPad and found something different. Something interesting. Something that was going to help me get over my disappointment. It was time to do some EFT. (this blog isn’t about EFT so if you want to know more about it, I encourage you to Google it)

15 minutes later I was free. Free from the pain and sadness, disappointment and frustration left over from the day. I was now full of hope and love, peace and happiness. And I learned something very valuable. Actually I learned two valuable lessons from that. One was that when you come from a place of desperation, the universe responds accordingly.  Think about that for one minute. The other lesson I learned?


the secret behind the law of attraction
The secret behind the law of attraction

The secret law of attraction

And the best part, the friends we make. That’s where the true value lies. That’s where the secret law of attraction is. For weeks leading up to this event all I could think about was the money I was going to make, maybe focused too much of my attention on that without realizing that there is truly something more important than money, and that’s relationships.

I mean, I already knew that, right? We all know that. But this is a clear case of already knowing something but actually getting the point. Like having an *in your face* a-ha moment.

I gained a couple of things this weekend that had nothing to do with money. New friendships and new bonds. Priceless. By day 3, I could care less if I sold a book or not. I was too busy having tons of fun with my new friends and spreading light and love to all the women that attended the event. Again, priceless.

How to attract money

I think the one very important lesson I learned here is that we are so focused on attracting money and visualizations based around money that we forget to surrender, let go and just feel happy. We are so busy chasing the almighty dollar and many of us do it from a place of desperation.

When we try to manifest from that place, like I did, nothing good comes from that. The universe feels our desperation and says “Oh, you are desperate and need the money? Ok I’ll make sure you stay feeling desperate because it seems you like it there. That’s all you ever feel these days.”

The universe knows. Energy is everything and the energy you are putting out will come right back to you. If you want to attract money and other good and lovey type things you have to feel like you already have it and feel the feeling of what it will be like living in the life of luxury.

The secret law of attraction works in mysterious ways.

By the way,  here’s my new book ;)

Peace and Love


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I’ve tripped and skipped through life looking for my purpose, my passion, what’s going to rock my world and make me happy. What a journey it has been. My careers have been exciting, and boring, but they were exactly what they were supposed to be to get me to where I am today. From Waitressing/Bartending to Loans and Mortgage Officer (yup, boring) to Income Tax Corrector (again, boring), Fitness Instructor/Personal Trainer to Hairstylist, Correctional Worker to Feng Shui Practitioner. Colourful and completely fulfilling. The end result? A passionate writer and blogger that has a huge treasure chest full of really cool stuff to write about!

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  • The last two years have left me thinking that the Universe sends me not what I think I want, but what I really need – I am now in a better place than I could have imagined five years ago.
    By the way, what is your book’s subject and title?

    • Hey Tim thanx for dropping a comment! I appreciate that and you are right about the universe giving us what we need, not what we want. :) I’m currently working on a mini series of books about self development. Always with a bit of an Iva spin on it :)

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