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How To Get Over Someone Fast (and move the f**k on)

I remember some 10 years ago or so when I left my abusive relationship of 8 years I spent many days wondering how I was ever going to move on from this. Obviously I did and today I want to talk to you about how to get over someone fast so you can move with

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9 Signs of Manipulation in a Relationship Not To Be Ignored

I’m pretty certain we’ve all been manipulated at some point in our lives. Siblings are good for doing that! Ha! We can laugh it off now but it wasn’t so funny back then. We didn’t even know we were being manipulated. But we’re adults now and some of us still can’t recognize the signs of

what causes relationship paranoia and how to fix it

Relationship Paranoia-What Causes It and How to Fix It

Who else here is suffering, or has suffered, with relationship paranoia, raise your hands and shyly whisper “me?” Don’t feel bad. You are so not alone and you’ve come to the right place if you want to stop being paranoid in your relationship. Let’s face it, it’s no damn fun. You live in an almost

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How to Leave a Narcissist-8 Things You Need To Do

Let’s face it, leaving any relationship is hard to do but leaving a narcissist, for some reason, is super hard to do. I mean, they’ve spent so much time convincing us we need them. Today I want to talk about how to leave a narcissist so you can finally be happy and free.  I’ll be

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10 Powerful Narcissistic Abuse Quotes That Will Hit You in the Feels

You know I write an awful lot about healing from the past and forgiving others and all that kind of good stuff. I also write a lot of articles that share quotes with you and this one is no different. I thought today I would marry the two topics, healing and quotes, and share with

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5 Things to Learn While Dealing With Heartbreak

I’m no stranger to heartache. I love full on, no holds barred. When I love, I love hard core. Now with that said, this mushy heart of mine gets broken often. I could probably write a book about dealing with heartbreak ( I should do that). I find that after each heartbreak I always manage

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5 Extremely Damaging Narcissistic Traits You Should Know Right Now

This is a new word for me. Narcissism. To be perfectly honest with you, I didn’t even really know what one was. I had to Google the definition. It sounded terrible!! From some of the blog headlines I saw, I knew that a narcissistic person was evil. Then I Googled to see what some narcissistic

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10 Ways to Deal With A Dysfunctional Family at Christmas

It’s getting close to that time of year again. Where we have to all gather around the table for the big family Christmas dinner and celebrate. Yippee! Unfortunately, we aren’t all too excited about this upcoming event. Many of us have to deal with a dysfunctional family at Christmas. Are you one of them? I

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4 Reasons You Want Your Ex Back (and why it’s a bad idea)

You guys just broke up. Your heart is broken. You can’t imagine life without him/her. He’s been the love of your life for x amount of years. How on earth are you supposed to go on without them? You’re pretty sure you can’t. You now start thinking about what you could have possibly done wrong

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How to Move On and Let Go of Trauma From Your Past

So easy to say. Move on. Let go. Forgive and Forget. If it were easy to do we’d all be doing it. But it’s not. We’re going to talk about how to move on in this article. People tell us to do it all the time like it’s nothing. It’s nothing, right? Ah, he/she/they didn’t


Iva Ursano is a retired hairstylist turned badass freelancer, who left behind 52 years of her life in Northern Ontario, Canada for a life of freedom, love and beauty in sunny Guatemala. She has two main purposes in life: feed hungry bellies and help inspire people to live a life of joy and love.