The New Moon in December-Forget the Past, Bring on the Future and Love Ahead!

The new moon is fast approaching and you know what that means? You don’t? Lemme tell ya. It means fuck the past and prepare for a brighter future AND love ahead. The new moon in December is on the 18th of the month and like any new moon, it really is about forgetting the past and all the bullshit and getting ready for a happier tomorrow. And what about love? Look out. There is love ahead!

But……only if you’re ready.

If you follow me you know I love the energy of the moons, full and new. The full moon wraps me in love and comforts me. It soothes all my wounds from the previous month. The new moon is a time for me to set my intentions and open up to allow them into my life.

Fuck the past

Fuck everything about it. Unless of course there was some good shit that happened! Then yay for you!! For me, this past month was a tough one. My heart was broken and I’ve cried almost every day so far. Don’t feel sorry for me, it was my own fault, I only share that now because I like keeping it real with you guys 🙂

I desperately want to say fuck the past. Fuck all that bullshit!! Bring on some good shit for goodness sake. I am SO ready. But don’t forget the lessons from the past. You already did, didn’t you? There are lessons in every single trial we go through.

Yes the new moon, and I, want you to leave the past behind, just not the lesson. You’ll need that for your bright future.

Are you ready for love?

YES! Dammit, I sure am. This new moon will have a loving tone to it. It’s all about loyalty and respect. If someone has deep feelings for you, you’ll feel it this month. More so than ever. If you are single and available, this new moon could have you meeting someone new, that someone special, and it could be the one!

This new moon also wants you to know your worth! If you are looking for love, don’t settle and don’t grab onto any John or Sally just because you are feeling extra lovey (or horny) and emotional this month. Love yourself first.

Now let’s get serious

Not looking for love or could not care less about it? Are you more of the strong mature creative work type person? This new moon has your name all over it too! Creativity is at an all time high and opportunities are all around you. People and prospects come out of the woodwork for you. Keep your eyes open for them and don’t say no.

It’s time to get down to business and set the tone for 2018. This new moon urges you to do it now. It’s the perfect period for it. Don’t be afraid to take on more work or duties than usual this time. You are laying down the foundation for your future. Remember, hard work does pay off. You will reap your rewards next year. This is your time.

This new moon also happens to be in Sagittarius and we know how they love to have their hands in everything. Focus. Know what you want and work towards that.

Next step?

The effects of the new moon last the whole month, four weeks, right up to January’s new moon but the best time to act on it is the first two weeks. Set your intentions, release the past and start building your future, or at least start making notes of things that need to be done.

I like to write out new moon wishes. On the day of the new moon I sit quietly with some soft music and think about what I truly want in my life. I’ll write out 10 wishes and stick them under my mattress and keep it there for the whole month. Just before the next new moon I’ll take it out, read them and then burn it.

I’m not saying you should do that, but I like to do it. It keeps me slightly focused and grounded. Slightly.

Are you ready?

Peace and Love



5 Things to Say No to Now For a Better Life.

You want a better life. I know you do. The one you’re living is causing you anxiety, grief, frustration and more turmoil than you desire. I’m not insinuating that your life sucks right now, or am I? When we start saying no to things, our life becomes almost magical.

But….we don’t. And our life ends up shitty. You do realize the choices you make reflect your life. No one else’s. You decide what to keep and what to toss out. No one can do that for you. You get that, right? So why then, do we still blame others for all the shit things that keep appearing in our lives? It’s a mystery for sure.

If you want a better life then it’s time to start saying NO to these 5 things.


Talking about people is stupid. Are we so bored in our own lives that we must waste our time digging up dirt on someone else’s life? Is it necessary? Of course not. Yet we still do it. Gossiping is toxic negative energy. How on earth do you plan on having a happy positive and better life if you keep letting all that toxicity run through your blood?

Stop doing that now. It makes you look ugly and I know you don’t want to be ugly. And keep something in mind, the people you sit around and gossip with, chances are they are talking about you after you leave. Ugh!


Please let go of hate. Hate is so toxic and crippling. There is no room for love if your heart is full of hate. Don’t you want a better life? How do you expect to have a better life if you are carrying around hate? Newsflash for you. It just won’t happen. Sorry.

Start saying no to hating things and starting saying yes to love. Send love to things, people, everything. The more you spread love and feel love, the less you will hate. Please say no to hate.

Being a Doormat

Stop letting people walk all over you. You know you hate it. It drives you bat shit crazy. After it happens you spend the next hour/day/week complaining about it. What’s the point of that? Start saying no to being a doormat. You are NOT a doormat. You are a human with feelings. Start being treated like one.

Use your voice. Remember that thing? The one you have no trouble using with your bestie? Use it with the peeps who try to step all over you. Put your hand on your hip, your hand out in their face and say NO! Here’s to a happy life.

Limiting beliefs

We all have them and those suckers stop us from living the life we deserve. They stop us from believing in ourselves. They stop us from doing ballsy badass shit. They just stop us. Take that power away from them and take back YOUR power.

You can do be and have anything you want (except a unicorn, you can’t be unicorn, we’ve talked about this before). Stop listening to and feeding into these limiting beliefs. If you need to, go listen to some motivational podcasts or watch Lisa Nichols or Les Brown on YouTube. You are awesome and your limiting beliefs need to go. Now!!

Stress and Worry

They serve no purpose. At all. Whatsoever. You are wasting time worrying about things that haven’t even happened. Why are you doing that? That’s the same with stress. We stress over shit that eventually works itself out anyway.

Remember everything is temporary. Even your troubles. Take a deep breath, embrace the challenge, have faith that it will work out exactly how it is supposed to, smile and release. I know, easier said than done, but please just try it. Next time something stressful shows up, let it go. Say no to stress and worry!

See the pattern here? All this stuff is negative. If you want a better life you must let go of negative toxic things. You will not achieve happiness while you are still hanging on to all this shit.

You’re welcome.

Peace and Love



5 Things You Must Change to Make 2018 Your Best Year Ever!

Ah another year down. A new one on the way. As we reflect on 2017 a few things come to mind…wasn’t 2017 supposed to be our best year ever?

  • wow what a year
  • did I accomplish what I set out to do?
  • have I grown? learned? made any breakthroughs
  • am I closer to my goal?
  • where the fuck did the year go?

Yup, many things go through our minds. The biggest one for me is what lessons can I take from this year to apply next year. I know I need to make changes. Apparently, a lot of them. This wasn’t a perfect year for me. It certainly wasn’t my best year ever. I suffered great losses, some heart break and many challenges.

But….I plan on moving forward into 2018 with my head held high and determination. Tons of determination. There are a few changes I know I need to make and here is my compilation. Maybe some of these might resonate with you.


I’ll admit, I’m a bit of a squirrel. I have shiny object syndrome and have a helluva time focusing on one thing in particular. I’m all over the place. What I’ve discovered is that it serves me no good. At all. I get nothing accomplished and nothing finished.

This year I will use my daily planner and jot things down and knock them off one at a time. (here’s to hoping)

Boundary Lines

Oh I talk about this all the fucking time and clearly mine are invisible. They exist only in my mind but they are nowhere to be found. I have got to start saying “no” to the things I know aren’t good for me. I have got to start putting my foot down without feeling guilty.

Boundary lines are hard to keep for one main reason: we want to make people happy and not upset anyone. Fuck that noise. 2018 I will be armed with a thick black magic marker and you will know there is a line. ’nuff said.

Action please!

It’s time to start taking action on the ideas I have and the things I want to do. I talk alot. I talk alot about the things I want to do but never do them. 2018 I will start doing some of these things. I will take my ideas from my cloud bubble over my head and realize them, manifest them, make them happen.

Fear is big ugly imaginary thing that stops most of us from achieving our goals. Fuck fear. Smash goals.

Have faith!

You know, I like to think I have lots of faith. I mean, after all the shit I’ve been through, you would think that my faith is unwavering. But it still does. Some days I just don’t think I can do it/be it/get through it/handle it. You name it, I have doubts sometimes.

We all do. No matter how much faith we have, there is still a fraction of doubt. It’s time to kick that doubt to the curb, dig deep and ignite our faith. We can do anything!!!

Grudge off.

Ok so I just made up that term but it has a cool kinda ring to it. So what does it mean? It means let go of people who hurt you. Stop complaining about them and talking shit about them. I’ll admit (again) I’m not perfect and sometimes still catch myself..”you know what that fucker did to me??”. Ya I gotta knock that shit off.

Grudges don’t serve any purpose at all other than to leave poison in our soul and hearts. We need to make room for love, happiness, kindness and peace and there will be no room for that if you’re still grudging about someone. Time to grudge off.

I’ll have to say, 2017 was a pretty good year. I learned a lot, not only about myself but about technology as well. I grew alot personally and professionally. I still have a long way to go personally but I am excited about my future professionally. There are big things on the horizon!

Will 2018 be my best year ever? I honestly think it will. I am going in with a plan, determination and a winning spirit. What about you?

Peru, I’ll see you in 2018.

Peace and Love.

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