So another Mother’s Day is here. I’m a mom. My son loves me to the moon and back. He’s a good kid but he’s also really good at forgetting Mother’s Day. He doesn’t do it on purpose. “Mom, why do you need one special day to honor you? I love you every day.” Well, I…
How to Deal With the Horrific Memories (and the trauma) From the Past.
The past is a funny thing. I don’t mean funny ha-ha, I mean funny hmmmm. We want to forget it. Really we do. We don’t want to keep going back there. It sucks. We forgive the hurt and the pain, well some of us do anyway, but forgetting? The memory is always there, just a…
Dear God, Way To Go.
Dear God. Just wanted to pop in real quick and send you a letter about some things that have been on my mind lately. I probably don’t express my feelings to you as much as I should. I really am better at letter writing than verbalizing. Ask any ex boyfriend. Oh but you already knew…
5 Things I Am Grateful For Because of My Abusers
Right now I know you want to know what I’m smoking. You think I’ve lost my senses. Why should I express gratitude for my abusers? Well here are 5 things you need to thank your abusers for. You’ll thank me at the end too! Moving on….. Let’s talk about the abuse first, shall we? I…
5 Self Love Tips For When You Are Heart Broken
Breaking up sucks. Losing a job sucks. Falling out with a friend sucks. Really, anything that makes our heart sad, just sucks. I’m no stranger to heartbreak. I’ve lost businesses, money, friends, relationships, jobs, you name it, it’s gone. I’ve also lost a lot of my self love while going through all this crap. Finding…