Tag: change your life

  • How To Change Your Life in Just a Few Simple Steps

    How To Change Your Life in Just a Few Simple Steps

    I appear to be a bit of a brave bad*** to a lot of people and for the most part, I guess I kinda am. After years of abusive relationships, financial struggles and the constant battling within myself to find out who Iva is, and what she wants, I am…

  • 4 Powerful Ways to Simplify Your Life

    4 Powerful Ways to Simplify Your Life

    Our lives are clogged up with stuff. Material things, things we don’t need or want, toxic people, people we don’t need or want. We work at jobs we hate, we live in houses that cost more than we can afford, we drive cars that are hella expensive to maintain and…

  • How to Pick Your Divorce Battles Without Going Crazy.

    How to Pick Your Divorce Battles Without Going Crazy.

    It came down to three things, all of which seem so silly right now: a nice car, new furniture, and when to drop off the dogs on the weekend. These things were my lines in the sand—what I had chosen to fight over during my divorce. I wasn’t as good…

  • This Is How The Word NO Can Affect You

    This Is How The Word NO Can Affect You

    You know, no is a funny word, right? We hear it and we stop. You ask a question, the answer is no, you accept it and walk away. The end. You may not like the answer no, but it’s too late, really, you’ve already acknowledged the fact that that’s what…

  • Why Your Comfort Zone is a Lie and How to Get Out of It.

    Why Your Comfort Zone is a Lie and How to Get Out of It.

    Get out of your own way! Get out of your comfort zone! Stop flatlining! Get a grip for God’s sake! How many times have you heard that? Maybe some of you have never heard that and have no clue what I’m talking about. Get out of your own way. What…

  • Being a Mean Girl Changed My Life Forever (and I don’t regret it)

    Being a Mean Girl Changed My Life Forever (and I don’t regret it)

    My name is Iva and I used to be a mean girl. There I said it. You know, nothing changes if nothing changes, right? How many times have you yelled out at your spouse or partner or child “You’ll never change!!”? Chances are, if you keep shouting that to them,…