How to Be Happy Using the Power of Magic (and it’s not what you think).

Well this is a lot different than what we normally talk about isn’t it? You can usually count on me to talk about flicking fear to the curb, dumping douchebag boyfriends, embracing change and all that other life changing stuff. But today? Nope, not today. This time we are talking about something totally different. Magic. Do you believe in magic? You should. I’m gonna tell you how to be happy, once and for all using magic, and no, I don’t mean casting spells on the people you hate or making magic potions in a cauldron with witch’s herbs (unless you’re into that sort of thing).

I used to believe, or not believe, in a lot of things when my life was shit. I believed in God, I believed my life was crap, I believed I was doomed to be stuck in Hell forever, but I weakly believed that things couldn’t stay like this forever. Something had to change right? I mean, for real, whose life is shit forever?

How to be happy? The million dollar question.

So when do things start changing? When does life get better? When do you start actually being happy? You know, sometimes it takes us a while, a really long while to realize we are speeding down the wrong road and we need to pull a u-turn, fast. Sometimes, we need to be smacked hard upside the head and told to smarten up. Not by our friends or family, because Lord knows we ain’t gonna listen to them. Nope.

We need to do that for ourselves. When we finally open our eyes and realize enough is enough, that’s when things change and not a moment sooner.

For me, it all got better when I decided to take matters into my own hands, once and for all, and start changing the way I saw things and the way I thought about things. Not only that though, I started putting more faith and trust in the powers to be. I was ready to open my mind, my eyes, my heart and my soul to something bigger than me. I was slowly learning that I needed to learn more about myself and about how to be happy.

What I was doing, or should I say not really doing, wasn’t working for me anyway. It was time to look outside of myself for help.

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How to change your life with magic

Welcome, Magic.

I was already sending hourly prayers to God, hell sometimes I was even talking to Satan himself (I soon discovered he really is an asshole). I had to start believing in something bigger than me and had to open my world to receive gifts. By gifts I mean, people, small blessings, little miracles, things like that. The people came just as I needed them.

The one person in particular who completely changed my world is Steven Aitchison.  I can go on and on for days weeks months and years about how incredibly awesome this man is and how he changed my world but I won’t. What I will tell you is how his program The Magic rocked my world beyond belief. Before he brought it to my attention, I can honestly say I never believed in magic at all. Not one teeny tiny little bit. Never even gave it a second thought. Ever.

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How to change your life with magic

Steve gave me hope. He saw how broken and unstable I was and could clearly see that I needed something to believe in and help me. He assured me that magic was real, that I should give it some thought and at least try it.

I did. And I’ve never looked back since.

We’re not talking about voodoo dolls (though I have one or two that I pull out randomly when the urge strikes me) or magic wands that you wave when you want a miracle. We’re not talking about genies in a bottle, or crystal balls. Nope, we’re not talking about any of that. The Magic is simple, logical, easy and oh SO powerful.

Are you there yet?

You know the old saying, “when the student is ready the teacher will appear”. Or was it “when you open your cupboard chocolate will appear” (yesssss)? Are you ready? Are you there yet? Are you tired of the shit life you are living right now and ready for something to change, something to give, just one break?

Open your mind, open your heart and open your eyes. The Universe awaits you, God is listening and at your beck and call, and the Magic is just at your fingertips. All you have to do is believe and be ready. Really ready.

Are you?

How bad do you want a new life? Remember, and I tell you guys this ALL the time, you are not here to live in misery and sadness. We are all here to live a life of ridiculous joy. Believe it.

Are you ready now?

“Can you tell me where I can find blonde voodoo dolls, please?”

Peace and Love


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What Does Your Zodiac Sign Say About Your Love Life?

What does your zodiac sign say about your love life? I love anything to do with astrology and love. What a great combination. I’m a Libra, through and through and I LOVE everything about love. I kinda know who I’m compatible with and who I’m not. Now saying that, that doesn’t stop me from dating guys in signs I shouldn’t date. I’ll never learn.

Zodiac signs.

Many people still snub their nose at astrology. It’s all rubbish they say. No it’s not. Check your sign. Check the signs of people you know and love and tell me there are no similarities. I’ll admit, some things are a little off, but mostly they are spot on. When you read about your sign, and your traits, surely much of it is correct?

The quiz.

As with anything, take these things lightly. Mine is pretty accurate except for the last part. Libra’s are afraid of confrontation and are always seeking balance and harmony so for us to leave a relationship it has to be pretty bad. Click on your sign and see how accurate it is for you and then you can check out your partner’s sign or the object of your desire.

If you liked this quiz, why not check out this one too!!

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How to Listen to Your Intuition and Why it’s So Important!

That. You know what “that” is. You feel it more and more these days. In the beginning you just felt it a little. Then as the days came and went, you felt it more and more. Now it’s so strong, well, you simply can’t ignore it. You know what “that” is. Your intuition. You know it. But…..

…you ignored it.

There It Is Again!

Another day arrives and there’s that feeling again. You keep pushing it away though. That feeling. You try to explain it, try to make sense of it, but no one understands it. No one but you. It comes back more often these days. When you first had that feeling, that intuition,  it was almost fleeting, a little spark, a flicker of excitement. Now when it arrives, it’s fierce, strong and not to be ignored. But…..

….you did and you do.

There it is again and again and again. Do you know why it keeps coming back, and now, more often than ever before? Do you know why it keeps visiting you and seemingly taunting you? Do you understand what that feeling really truly is?

Your intuition is your soul’s longing.

Yet we keep ignoring our intuition. We ignore that feeling that is our signal, our wake up call, to who we are and why we are here. Short of it being able to scream at you or smack you upside the head, this feeling, your intuition, is your alert.

But we keep ignoring it. Why?

We are all here for a reason. It’s not just to be born, grow up, get a job, pay bills, and die. We are here for FAR FAR more than that. FAR more. Someone invented electricity, someone invented cars, someone invited airplanes, someone invented computers, someone started global charitable organizations. Do you see? These people had a passion and a purpose and they dove right in, embraced it and brought it to life. Some, larger than life.

Why not you?

Oh wait. You keep thinking you can’t. You’re not good enough, smart enough, rich enough, enough enough. You just keep putting out your fire, your spark, because you keep thinking you can’t. You keep thinking you aren’t big enough or special enough to do what your heart is calling you to do.

We think that these dreams, passions, purposes, well they’re for the bigger guys, the smarter guys, certainly not us.

Why not you? Who said you can’t?  Why can’t you be the one? No really, why not? Give me one good reason why you can’t. Know one thing and never forget it. When you want something bad enough, when that fire is burning inside of you SO bad, when you feel that passion and desire with every single ounce of who you are and what you are made up of, nothing and I mean absolutely fucking nothing will stand in your way.

Do you get that? Do you understand that? NOTHING!

Get out of your way.

YOU are the only person standing in your way. YOU are the one denying yourself of the life you deserve to live. YOU are the one who is responsible for your life and responsible for all the decisions you make. Yes you. If you aren’t, then something in your life needs to change and that something is you. Why are you letting someone else control your life?

YOU are the captain of your ship, and the way your ship is going, whatever direction it is sailing, is because of you. But you keep steering it in the wrong direction. You are bringing it safely to calm water, closer to shore. It’s safer there.

You won’t get another chance.

This is it. This is your life, live, right now. Why are you stopping yourself from living the life you really truly passionately and desperately want to live? Why? You don’t get a second chance. You know that right? Do you want to be 75 or 80 or 90 with a sad face and be disappointed because you knew with all your heart when you were younger you could have made a difference and you didn’t and now it’s too late?

Do you get that? Make a difference today. Live your purpose and your passion. Change the world. Do it.

Peace and Love