So easy to say. Moving on. Letting go. Forgive and Forget. People tell us to do it all the time, like it’s nothing. It’s nothing, right? Ah, he/she/they didn’t mean to do that. Just forgive, forget and move on. Are you serious? It’s hard to deal after the trauma, amirite? Right. What’s the big deal…
10 Clear Signs it Was Time For Me to Wake Up.
Have I really been sleeping for all these years? Probably. I mean, maybe not in a complete life coma but pretty close. I sit here and type this and realize my whole life is a haze, a blur. All 53 years of it. What on earth have I been doing all this time? Did I…
Being a Mean Girl Changed My Life Forever (and I don’t regret it)
My name is Iva and I used to be a mean girl. There I said it. You know, nothing changes if nothing changes, right? How many times have you yelled out at your spouse or partner or child “You’ll never change!!”? Chances are, if you keep shouting that to them, one of two things are…
5 Breakup Rules That Will Save You From a Ton of Grief.
It’s break up time. Good grief. You were sure this guy/gal was the one you were going to spend the rest of your life with. Remember those first few months when everything was so beautiful and full of love and roses and sweet love making? What happened and when did it happen? Breaking up…
6 Reasons You Must Forgive and Move On.
We’ve all been hurt.* Hard done by* by someone. Joe blow cheated on us. Mary borrowed a dress and ruined it. My ex beat and raped me. My mother abused me. Yes the list is quite endless but I’m here to tell you now, you must forgive and move on. We can all throw our…
4 Things You Must Never Do While Getting Over a Breakup
Man oh man breaking up sure does suck. I hate everything about it, except for one thing. The simple fact that you are moving on with your life and allowing better things to come to you. Always a positive side, amirite? Anyway, although we think healing will be impossible, the truth is, of course…
Say NO To These 5 Things If You Want To Be Happy!
You want a better life. You want to know how to be happy. I know you do. Who doesn’t? The one you’re living is causing you anxiety, grief, frustration and more turmoil than you desire. I’m not insinuating that your life sucks right now, or am I? When we start saying no to things, our…
