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How the Homeless People Really Just Want Kindness.

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You see them on the street corners, at intersections, in parking lots, in front of grocery stores and banks. They look scary, rough and dirty. You’re afraid of getting too close to them because you are pretty sure they are riddled with some sort of contagious disease that you are absolutely not in the least bit interested in catching. They are the homeless.

They have signs that, for the most part, are written out illegibly. Some just have old Styrofoam coffee cups placed in front of them. Others have their guitar cases laid out on the sidewalk while they desperately try to catch your attention with an old Neil Young tune.

The homeless.

The street people. The drug addicts and the drunks.

You walk by pretending not to see them. You secretly wish they would just go away. They disgust you and, quite frankly, you are totally appalled by their appearance and their constant begging.

“Good grief. Why can’t they just go find a job like the rest of us? Those filthy beggars. They’re so gross!!”

Sound familiar? Ok, maybe not all of it, but perhaps some of it? That’s what I thought. It’s easy to think like that actually. In today’s day and age, most of us are struggling to keep up with the rising cost of living, paying off credit cards and filling our tank with gas that costs way too much money while working jobs we dread going to.

We work our butts off to survive day to day and here are these “people” on the streets begging for money. How can we NOT be annoyed or pissed by that, right?

And we walk by them, disgusted.

The Elgin Street Mission

This is their safe place. The place where they can put their signs away, exchange the dirty coffee cup (that has little money in it) for a clean one filled with coffee, tuck the guitar case away in the corner and settle in for a nice hot meal served by people that don’t judge them. They sit and laugh amongst themselves and joke heartily with the mission volunteers, myself being one of them.

This is where the homeless come and hang out and feel respected and comforted.

They have good manners. We all say grace before meals and they ALL remove their hats before grace. They all say “thank you very much for the great dinner” and they are all pretty harmless. Really. They are people just like you and I.

I take a minute to tell the young native girl that she looks absolutely beautiful in her pretty summer dress and she looks at me surprised, maybe even a little shocked that someone has paid her a compliment, and slowly smiles. Gradually her whole face lights up as she says thank you. She has the sweetest smile.

I joke with Paul and tell him that he is pure trouble and if he steps out of line I’ll be eating his dessert. He laughs and quickly shoots back that if I do there will be Hell to pay!!

I sneak an extra glass of milk to the young man who looks agitated and he touches my hand, gives me the most sincere look I’ve seen in a long time and whispers ” God bless you, thank you so so much.”

And then there’s the homeless guy Steve, an older native man, who doesn’t come in drunk but always smells of alcohol, who is convinced I am the girl he is going to marry. I keep telling him he can’t handle me. He flashes a toothless grin and shakes his finger at me.

These are the people that melt my heart. They are the reason I volunteer at the mission once a week.

These are the people on the street that you have snubbed.

People are people. Period. Treat everyone with kindness and respect.

That’s all anyone wants.

Peace and Love!

​Iva ♥


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2 Responses

  1. As a manager at a grocery store it is very challenging to balance offering love and kindness to keeping the stores integrity. There are a few things we cannot allow to go on in our store and parking lot; steeling, begging and loitering. It’s very difficult to show the loving kindness I have for everyone when I’m in a position where certain things can’t be allowed and the consequences sometimes have been arrest. It hurts but I don’t know what I can do to prevent such a tragic thing to happen to someone where I’m part of what gets him or her arrested.

    1. I totally understand that Dan. That’s a tough spot to be in for sure. Grocery stores and liquor stores, oddly enough, seem to be the preferred spots for the homeless. There’s not much you can do really. Rules are rules though, unfortunately. <3

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Iva Ursano is a retired hairstylist turned badass freelancer, who left behind 52 years of her life in Northern Ontario, Canada for a life of freedom, love and beauty in sunny Guatemala. She has two main purposes in life: feed hungry bellies and help inspire people to live a life of joy and love.