Struggling With Jealousy After a Divorce? Help is here!!

Struggling with negative emotions is crippling. I have just created and launched my first self help guide eBook From Hell to Happiness. Click here for more info  You know that feeling. Some of us know it all too well during divorce and after divorce. When one of your grown children, after spending the weekend with…

Divorce Was Not The End For Me (but the beginning)

My new self help guide book From Hell to Happiness is NOW available to download online. Click here for more info! Divorce is scary as shit. No one ever wants to think that their loving partner is now someone they no longer want to be with. Read this great post by guest author Lauren on…

5 Things I Am Grateful For Because of My Abusers

Right now I know you want to know what I’m smoking. You think I’ve lost my senses. Why should I express gratitude for my abusers? Well here are 5 things you need to thank your abusers for. You’ll thank me at the end too! Moving on….. Let’s talk about the abuse first, shall we? I…

5 Self Love Tips For When You Are Heart Broken

Breaking up sucks. Losing a job sucks. Falling out with a friend sucks. Really, anything that makes our heart sad, just sucks. I’m no stranger to heartbreak. I’ve lost businesses, money, friends, relationships, jobs, you name it, it’s gone. I’ve also lost a lot of my self love while going through all this crap. Finding…

Finding Joy During a Painful Divorce. It’s Easier Than You Think

Everyday seems like a struggle during divorce. Learning how to reinvent ourselves, establish our independence again, and figure out what we want during this next chapter of our lives is a bit overwhelming. Oftentimes, we may forget to see all the wonderful things that await us. Looking for or even finding joy in the middle of a divorce seems impossible, but it’s not So often, we get so bogged down with the stress, overwhelm, and emotional roller-coaster that is the end of a marriage that we forget about all the things that we have going for us. But learning to find joy in your life, especially while navigating or recovering from divorce, is an incredible gift that you can give to yourself. And it can be easier than ever when you ask yourself the following. Finding joy and amazing things are right under your nose We have this unfair expectation that only huge milestones in our lives are worth celebrating. But what about the day-in/day-out struggles that we endure, especially as we grow older? We don’t give ourselves enough credit for the things we have accomplished, especially as we learn to move on after divorce. Every day that you take control of your life, every day that you learn a little more about managing money and re-entering the workforce, every day that you get a little bit stronger and take care of yourself and put yourself first and realize that you are worthy of getting your confidence back and reclaiming your life is something you should celebrate. So, what things will you start to celebrate? I’ve listed a couple of my own! -I choose to celebrate that I am no longer in a relationship that was unhealthy for me. -I will celebrate that I am a survivor. I got through this, and now I…