I’ll admit it, I certainly stayed way longer than I should have. I probably should have turned on my heels at the 3rd month, the first time he lied. But I didn’t. I stuck around for almost 8 more years (ya I know, what a dummy). 8 more years of more lies, bullying, emotional and…
The One Thing You Need to Do Every Morning and Night
Alarm goes off, hit snooze, finally get out of bed, make coffee/tea, shower and then scramble about the morning trying to get ready to start your day. Sounds frantic! Is this how your days are starting (or something pretty darn close)? Are you running around like a chicken with its head cut off? Are you…
5 Things That Cause a Broken Heart and How to Stop It
Our hearts eat lies. They do. Too often we believe what people tell us just so we can feel love and that right there my friends is the major cause of a broken heart. Let’s discuss this more. So why do we torment ourselves like that? Why do we keep letting our hearts eat lies?…
This Is How The Word NO Can Affect You
You know, no is a funny word, right? We hear it and we stop. You ask a question, the answer is no, you accept it and walk away. The end. You may not like the answer no, but it’s too late, really, you’ve already acknowledged the fact that that’s what the answer is. It’s too…
Why Your Comfort Zone is a Lie and How to Get Out of It.
Get out of your own way! Get out of your comfort zone! Stop flatlining! Get a grip for God sake! How many times have you heard that? Maybe some of you have never heard that and have no clue what I’m talking about. Get out of your own way. What way? What does she mean?…
10 Things I Learned About Myself After I Walked Out.
I didn’t really just walk out. He got a Dear John letter. Leaving was hard. I thought about it for months. A couple of years even. Right after I discovered the last lie it was a matter of time before I left. I had to get all my ducks in a row first. There were…
How to Recover From a Breakup in 5 Simple Steps
Ah breaking up sucks, doesn’t it? Especially if they dumped you. How could they? You did everything you thought you were supposed to do to keep this relationship alive and loving. You did everything you thought you should do to make your partner happy. Even after all that hard work, they still dumped you. What…
How to Stop Fear From Robbing You of the Life You Deserve
Did you know that right now fear is stopping you from living the life you yearn for and deserve? Yup it sure is. There are so many things you want to do, try, achieve, attain or whatever the case may be but fear won’t let you have it. Your fear is robbing you of LIFE!…
8 Things I Really Don’t Give a Crap About (and neither should you)
I’m a pretty caring and loving kinda girl. Really I am. I care about people, a lot. I care about the environment and poverty and my hair. Yes, I care a lot about my hair. I care about a lot of things. And my health. I try to stay pretty healthy. So you see there…
4 Powerful Steps You Must Take to Get the Life You Deserve!
So many of us want to change, want a better and new life, a new job, maybe even a happier more loving relationship or friendships BUT we do nothing to achieve them. All we do is think about it, dream about it, maybe even talk about it a little bit but that’s about it. It…