Do These 5 Things First Before You Start Looking For Love

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I’m a writer. I love what I do. I lose myself in writing and telling stories. Some of my stories are funny (I’d like to think so anyway), some are gentle rants while others discuss overcoming challenges. Whatever the topic is, you get a big piece of me in every blog post.

Yup, I love what I do. The one thing I do love to write about is how to handle breakups, and finding true love after a break up.

A couple of years ago, when I started my writing journey into freelancing, I used to write a lot about love, loving yourself and finding true love. I’m all about love and I love love. My stories always come from my heart. My heart has been crushed a million times but it just keeps on loving. That’s what hearts do.

I was writing a lot to try to get noticed, try to get some nice high authority site to recognize my work, love it and publish it. That was harder than I thought but this blog about finding true love finally struck a chord with someone!  Yay me!!

5 things you must do before you look for love again

Finding true love

Now I’m a firm believer in you can’t always find love, sometimes love just finds you. I also am a firm believer that right after a break up you should not be out looking for love. You need to take some time out for yourself and start finding true love within you first. We are all broken a little bit inside but if you don’t try to at least fix some of the broken pieces, you will keep attracting the wrong partner.

Though we all do want love and to be loved, true love starts inside you. That’s just my two cents though.

Will I Find Love?

The burning question. When will I find love? I get that being lonely sucks, trust me I get it. The article below I believe will really help you a lot in understanding the question so many of us ask ourselves all the time.


So, anyway back to submitting articles for free to get noticed, a month and a half in, a fabulous website Change your Thoughts had accepted an article. Yippee!! This week’s blog post is this article. Click on the link below “5 Things You Must Do Before You Look For Love Again”. I hope you enjoy it. If you do, share the love ♥

But before you click that link I really want you to check out this one first! It’s my new self help guide that has all the tips and tools I used to create a life I love and deserve!! YOU deserve a happy life too!!


finding true love 5 things to do first

5 Things You Must Do Before You Look for Love Again.

(this post contains affiliate links so if you make a purchase I make a small commission but the best part of that is the more I make, the more hungry bellies I can feed here in Guatemala-win win!!)

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I’ve tripped and skipped through life looking for my purpose, my passion, what’s going to rock my world and make me happy. What a journey it has been. My careers have been exciting, and boring, but they were exactly what they were supposed to be to get me to where I am today. From Waitressing/Bartending to Loans and Mortgage Officer (yup, boring) to Income Tax Corrector (again, boring), Fitness Instructor/Personal Trainer to Hairstylist, Correctional Worker to Feng Shui Practitioner. Colourful and completely fulfilling. The end result? A passionate writer and blogger that has a huge treasure chest full of really cool stuff to write about!

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  • Thank you for a great article Iva. It has really resonated with the CYT audience and has had over 6,500 shares on Facebook already, wonderful job.

  • Hey Steve, thanx for popping by!! :) I am overwhelmed by the response of your audience! Awesome to say the least. Thank you so much and I look forward to sharing more inspiring posts in the future. ♥

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