I’m a pretty caring and loving kinda girl. Really I am. I care about people, a lot. I care about the environment and poverty and my hair. Yes, I care a lot about my hair. I care about a lot of things. But then there are things I don’t give a crap about.
Check out my list and tell me what’s on your list.
So I care about a lot of things, besides my hair, like my health, my business, my family. You know, the normal things people generally care about.
Why am I sharing this with you? Because maybe after you see my list, and if any of these things weren’t on your list before, maybe they might go on there in the future. Maybe when you see some of the things I don’t care about you will see that they are, in fact, senseless things that you shouldn’t care about either.
Things I don’t care about
Now before I start, please don’t think I’m a big meanie or that I’m a cold heartless bee eye tee cee aitch. Because I’m not. It’s just some of these things are soul sucking and exhausting. I have zero interest in any of it.
What you think about me
Nope, don’t give a hoot about that. I used to. It used to drive me nuts if I thought for one second someone didn’t like me. How could that be? How could you not like me? I get it now. I’m not everyone’s cup of tea. I’m a bit of an in your face gushing sweetness and F bombs kinda girl and then I don’t know when to shut up sometimes so ya, I get how not everyone will like me. That’s cool. I don’t really care anymore. Like not at all.
The price of things
Gas prices are up or down, hydro is expensive, cigarettes cost more, taxes are increasing…oh good Lord, alright I get it. Prices are going up. Enough about it already. Can you do anything about it? Probably not. I’m so tired of hearing about it. Do you have money to pay for gas? Yes, wait you have a car, right? And you can pay for hydro, and everything else, right? I’m currently in a third world country where they don’t even have money for food. Shut up about your gas prices. I don’t care.
About all your aches and pains
Ok so that may sound really insensitive and I’m really sorry, but if you are one of those people who are always complaining about your latest pain, ya I don’t give a hoot about it any more and stop talking about it. It’s annoying and boring. Shut up about your knee and your elbow and your big toe. Good grief. Honestly, no one wants to hear about it any more. (I’ll speak for the masses here, you’re welcome) People honestly and truly don’t want to hear other people’s complaints. They don’t. There, I said it.
If I die tomorrow
I don’t give a crap about when I die, really, because every day I live my life to the absolute fullest. I don’t care if I die tomorrow and anyway, apparently the afterlife is soooooo super cool. Now don’t get me wrong, I don’t really wanna die tomorrow because I’m kinda really lovin’ life in Guatemala but if by some chance, well….it’s ok. I’m cool with it. (not like I have much choice any way)
I’m so politically challenged it’s not even funny. Trump, Biden, Trudeau, bla bla bla. Please don’t talk to me about politics. I’m a Canadian living in Guatemala. I’m blissfully ignorant. I don’t pay attention to politics because it’s confusing and full of lies, hate and anger. I don’t have time for all that negative energy.
How hard done by you’ve been
Oh trust me, I so get this one. I listened to myself cry the blues about my terrible life for years. Everybody did me wrong. My boyfriends, my parents, my family, you name it, everybody did me wrong. It was a nightmare. And I went on and on about it for years. My poor friends!!!! Why didn’t they tell me to shut up already?? Man, how dreadful it must have been for them to listen to me. To all my friends now, I’m sorry. If you’re one of those people who goes on and on and on….just stop. Please.
The latest fashion trends
Especially for women over 50. Don’t wear this, do wear that, long hair makes you look old, don’t wear high heels wear these loafers instead. OMG shut up. How about I just wear what I want, when I want and not wear what you think I should wear because I’m over 50.
Oy…how exhausting and stifling.
What everybody else is doing
I don’t give a crap about what the neighbours are doing. Is Jane having an affair behind Tom’s back? Did you know that Sally drinks too much and she’s on antidepressants? You know what? I don’t care. It’s none of my business and I could not care less about anyone else’s private life. You wanna know what I care about? Spreading love, smiles and helping people as much as I can.
If you’re vaxxed or not
Listen, that’s your business. Whether or not I’m vaxxed or not is my business. I’m so tired of people fighting over this. It’s sad and pathetic. So many friendships ended, families torn apart over this. I won’t ask you and please don’t ask me.
Yes, I’m getting old. I’ll be 60 this year. Yes, it’s slightly unnerving but I don’t give a crap about getting old. I had an amazing and colourful life. I traveled a lot, I changed and grew a lot, I inspired and motivated millions of people. I lived a full life. Getting old is part of life and I don’t really care about it anymore.
I don’t give a crap about negative things
As you can see, most of the things on my list are negative or illicit a negative response. I can’t deal with that. With negative stuff. It’s exhausting. Did you know it takes just as much energy to be negative as it does to be positive?
Stop wasting time engaging in negative things and start spending more time doing and thinking positive things. Life is short. Use each day to spread love, light, kindness and joy, not negativity.
And then watch how your world changes. You’re welcome.
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