Step Away From Your Comfort Zone-It’s No Good For You!

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My son is overseas at the moment. He’s been there since March of this year. I miss him like crazy. I keep up with him on Facebook through private messaging, and random pics he posts of his adventures. The last slew of pics he posted showed him swimming with whale sharks. Talk about stepping out of your comfort zone! eeep.

If I didn’t know any better, I’d think someone just posted some pics from a National Geographic photo shoot. But nope. That was my kid and I’ve never been more proud of him. He has no plans of returning to Canada anytime soon which got me thinking about something.

Why can’t I do that? Why can’t I go overseas and swim with whale sharks too? (OK maybe those critters are kinda scary to me but I’m up for looking for giant sea turtles! )

This sure got me thinking…. a lot!!

And the wheels started turning. So here I am in Canada. Northern Ontario to be exact. Winter is coming. (which reminds me, Game of Thrones will be back on soon….yes!!!) If you know anything of winter up here you will understand why I’m itching to get the heck outta here soon!

If you don’t own a snow machine, snowshoes, skates or any other winter paraphernalia then you clearly just don’t belong up here. I don’t and I don’t. Why am I here then? Really? I despise winter. I am a horrible winter driver. I won’t take any road trips as soon as the snow flies. I hate being cold. What on earth am I doing here then?

Yes this really got me thinking. There’s surely something else out there for me. Outside of Northern Ontario Canada. Isn’t there?

Of course there is. There’s a whole big wide world out there. I am not chained to Sudbury. I like Sudbury. This has been my home for 52 years. But there’s more out there. And it’s time for me to discover it. I’ve realized there’s nothing keeping me here anymore. So why stay? Fear? Perhaps. Comfort? Maybe.

Stepping out of the comfort zone

So when do we get the balls to step out of our comfort zone? When do you we finally decide “OK world, here I come, look out!”? For me, it was easy. I could feel it deep within me. Burning so furiously and passionately inside of me. Something in me is screaming. I feel restless and full of anxiety. These are my cues. It’s time. I’m scared. I’m excited. I’m anxious. I’m overwhelmed. I’m ready.

Do you have any of those feelings? Ever? Do you feel something inside of you screaming for your attention? Stop putting it to rest. Stop ignoring it! It’s screaming for a reason. It’s time. Time to step out of your comfort zone.

What’s next?

And now the real work begins, right? I mean it’s not like I can just stop life here, pick up and fly off to Malaysia to see my kid. There is preparation involved and lots of it. I have tunnel vision now and nothing is going to stop me and nothing is going to get in my way. Whatever does get in my way better be bigger than my dreams and I seriously doubt it will be.

Changing your life is hard work

We are all afraid of change because change requires work. We’re not sure if we’re properly equipped, if we’re strong enough or smart enough or, worse yet, confident enough. I’m not sure if I have all those qualities but I’m stubborn enough and that’s good enough for me.

I am focused now on the bigger picture and what I have to do to make it a reality. When we get that clear we become very resourceful. I’ve surprised myself in the last two months. I know what I want. Not sure how to get it but come hell or high water, I will get it.

Are you there yet? Are you scared enough yet? Can you feel it?

Update: This post was written in 2015. I have since traded in my hairstyling career for a freelance life, packed two suitcases and am currently residing in Guatemala. Yup. I totally jumped out of my comfort zone and did what I had to do to be happier and live a life of freedom!

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  • Great points and wishing you the best on your upcoming adventure Iva – wherever it may take you:) Our intuition is usually screaming at the top of it’s lungs when it wants to send us a message. Unfortunately, we almost always avoid it because of the fears and false beliefs running through our minds.

    Otherwise, I’m pushing myself outside my comfort zone by transitoning out of full time employment to pursue my passion. My approach is – what’s the worst that can happen. Even if things fail completely, I feel like I’ll be all the better for it since I found the courage to pursue my dreams.

  • Thanks for the visit and kind comment on Quick Me Ups 🙂

    Do it!

    In 2009 I quit my job and as I was looking around for work I realized…. these jobs are all the same and they don’t inspire me. I ended up buying a one way ticket to Santiago, Chile and have lived here since Feb. 2010. I couldn’t be happier I made that decision with my life.

    I encourage EVERYBODY to make at least one major change in their life. If you have a moment here it is:

    So YES a wholehearted YES, take a chance, make an adventure, and ENJOY IT!! 🙂

  • Hey Iva,

    This post is so inspiring- to see you go from questioning “why not” to actually getting out there, doing it, and living in Guatemala. Right now, I’m at a point in my life where I could go in many different directions. I have plenty of safe yet interesting options and also some scarier alternatives. I think that the biggest hurdle for me is convincing myself that I can handle it and that I am capable. That is why it is so inspiring to see someone who took the leap and actually did it.

    Thanks for the inspiration!

    • Yes Eva the hardest part is the belief in yourself that you can do it!!! Thank you for reading and I’m glad you enjoyed it!! Hope I inspired you to get out of ‘safe’ zonen 😉

      much love
      ox iva xo

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